metalcore1889,

I'm so glad you came to the forums!  What a difficult dilemma to find yourself in.  I wanted to touch base with you while we're waiting for others to respond.  How are you doing?  Have you discussed this any further with your husband?  I'm curious.  Does your husband's friends have access to his computer a lot?  It's difficult to know where to give the benefit of the doubt in spite of the evidence, isn't it?  Wow - I didn't mean to play 20 questions with you!

Because you are unsure whether or not to believe your husband, I wanted to steer you towards some articles that might help you.  To others on the forum - have any of you been in metalcore1889's shoes?  What did you do?  I think your experiences, if any, could really offer direction.

Also, metalcore1889, it might be a good idea to talk with one of our counselors.  They may be able to guide you as you look for the truth in this situation and then where to go from there once you find the truth.  If you haven't spoken to your husband any further about this, I would suggest chatting with one of us first, k?

And I'm praying for you.  I know this can't be easy, and I really wish you didn't have to go through this.  But I will be sure to mention you before the Father today.  Keep us updated.  We want to know how you're doing.

KristyFOTF

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