Up to Discussions in October 22, 2009: Communication in Marriage (Bill Farrel; Pam Farrel)
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Oct 22, 2009 2:02 PM

Spiritual Communication

Hello!

I am a happily married newlywed, and I am blessed to be married to a man that loves the Lord.  My question is:  Where do you get started bringing your spiritual lives together?  More specifically, what would you recommend in terms of devotions daily?  How do I let him lead that?  Any good suggestions?  We prayed and read scripture together as an engaged couple, but find it to be very different to intentionally merge our daily lives together in this area now that we live together.  Not sure if this makes sense, but we are drawing on other couple's experiences and opinions.

Thanks!

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1. Oct 22, 2009 2:21 PM in response to: MEM
Re: Spiritual Communication

Hi MEM! Just wanted to drop you a quick note letting you know that your question was answered by our very own Dr. Juli Slattery during the forum event around the 15 minute mark of the second hour.

 

In case you missed it, you can re-watch the event Communication in Marriage with Bill and Pam Farrel at your convenience!

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2. Oct 22, 2009 4:58 PM in response to: MEM
Re: Spiritual Communication

Yours is fun question! I love newlyweds--such a great time to build into your marriage and set strong foundations. A few suggestions:

 

(1) Get mentors who are stronger spiritually, so you can each watch a healthy couple grow with God in action.

(2) Do small group Bible studies (our Men are Like Waffles, Women are Like Spaghetti DVD by Lifeway is a fun one to start with).

(3) Pray together daily.

(4) Do a couples devotional study, like The Marraige Code with the Study Guide that has scripture and table talk times, prayer prompts, and love letter and dinner and dialogue questions--all great skills to hone for a lifetime of love.

(5) Do things specifically for newlyweds. Both Focus on the Family and our ministry have books for newlyweds. Ours is The First Five Years, and I think Focus on the Family's is The First Five Years of Marriage. These take you to discussions on topics you need to dialogue about in those early years.

(6) Most vitally, thank your spouse for going to church, for praying, for leading a discussion on a spiritual topic--"thank you" goes a long way. Also, anticipate and voice your trust and believe that he will be a great leader for your family.

 

Pam 

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