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Is "Regifting" Necessary?

Posted by Motte_Brown on Dec 11, 2009 3:26:15 PM

 

Unloading that Precious Moments figurine you got last Christmas by re-giving it to a more ... ahem ... "Precious Moments" person is something that's gaining acceptance in this economy. There's even a book about how to do it properly. From The Washington Post:

 

Given the state of the economy and your bank account, buying gifts for certain friends and family may not be possible this holiday season.

 

But no need to worry if that is your situation. Surely you have nice but unused gifts stashed around your home. If so, pull them out to do what in the past might have been unthinkable -- regift.

 

More Americans this year are planning on regifting or passing on a gift they received from someone else, according to a Consumer Reports survey on holiday shopping. The poll found that 36 percent of U.S. adults said they would recycle a gift, compared with 31 percent last year and 24 percent in 2007.

 

For regifting, it appears the cliche "It's the thought that counts" has been replaced by "One person's junk is another person's treasure."

 

What about you? Are you planning to regift this year?

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Dec 11, 2009 5:04 PM Alexis Alexis    says:
I just got married 5 1/2 months ago and we have tonnes of gifts that we could potentially re-gift.  Actually, tonight I am headed to my work Christmas party where we all bring a generic gift under $20 and play a little game.  My gift is a re-gift from my wedding bounty!  I have never had a problem with re-gifting, or having someone give me something I know is a re-gift.  I guess that comes from my "I don't mind second hand stuff in good condition" attitude.  I shop at thrift stores and happily take donations of clothing and other household items I might find useful.  It is about time re-gifting became more acceptable, I mean, isn't that what the early Church did?  Gather all their stuff together and give to each as they had need?  So if there is something I don't need/want and I know someone else needs/wants it, why not pass it along?
Dec 13, 2009 5:59 PM simplelegance simplelegance    says:
Yes!! we are planning on re-gifting! Each year, post-Christmas, we hold our annual "Re-gift Exchange" party. It's similar to a white elephant gift exchange except the gift you bring must be something you received and want to re-gift. Our friends look forward to it each year and really have fun giving away their junk and taking home a treasure. And since we're all openly admitting that the gifts are re-gifts, no feelings are hurt! :-)
Dec 14, 2009 12:23 PM Guest DEH  says:

My biggest concern with regifting is not for the people receiving the gifts but for the people who originally gave them in the first place.  I know how much thought and effort I put into the gifts I give.  And I also know that giving gifts can be a financial sacrifice for givers, as it is in my case.  However, I do it out of love.  That said, if I knew that the gift I gave someone was subsequently labeled "junk" and given away to get something "better," I definitely think my feelings would be hurt and I would think twice before giving them something in the future.  I think sometimes regifting focuses more on the material side of giving than on the relational side, and that's why I usually avoid doing it.  Does that mean that I sometimes end up with a pile of stuff I don't really want?  Yes.  But I'm okay with that because I think there's more to gift giving and receiving than getting stuff I want.

 

On a side note, that's also why I usually only take gift items back to the store if I already have the same item or if the giver has given me permission to return it for something else.  I never want Aunt Suzie to come over and ask where the rice cooker she gave me is and have to explain to her that I exchanged it for a DVD instead or that I traded it with a friend for something I really wanted.