Violin and Nokia Duet in A (for Annoying) Minor
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It is my understanding that the cell phone offender at the New York Philharmonic concert later apologized to Alan Gilbert and explained more fully what happened:
I do feel sorry and sad for this gentleman as it appears he did not know how to work his brand new company iPhone and didn't realize that some iPhone alarms are not silenced when the phone is put into standby or silent mode. I would guess that as a purchaser of season tickets for 20 years, he was fully aware of how infuriating this situation often is to audience members and performers alike, and he seems quite embarrassed about it. His quote that he "didn't even know phones came with alarms" is a good hint as to his awareness of when it was going off during the concert.
As a professional violinist, I have experienced many interruptions to concerts and recitals: cell phones ringing, watches beeping, excessive coughing, little ones crying, etc. However, I would not wish to create a concert atmosphere where people did not feel welcome to come. I share my gifts as a way of wanting to bring glory to God and help people experience how He reveals some of His glory during classical music, which often speaks deeply into people's hearts. If I were to perform in a situation where audience members didn't feel welcome coming at the risk of ostracism due to things sometimes out of their control, then I would not want to perform. It's the human connection that I wish to preserve with my audience that keeps me practicing and performing.
I would argue that Mr. Kmit handled the similar situation with more grace than Mr. Gilbert did in his circumstance and I agree that we can learn from his patience when we face similar annoyances in our lives. "A gentle answer turns away wrath," after all.