Years ago, my sister-in-law was 2nd in line at a bank. A customer left, leaving her cash on the counter. The male in front of her (I can't call him a man) plopped his book on top of the money to cover it. My sister-in-law pointed out to him that the money belonged to the person who just left. The guy acted like he had not seen the money that he covered up.
Which person showed integrity?
One day at work I saw a $20 bill lying on the floor of the breakroom. There must have been 75 employees working in that area and no one was in the room at the time. I picked it up and tried to figure out how to find the owner. It seemed like an almost impossible task. There was nothing very unique about that bill (e.g. a corner torn or some pen marks).
I sent out an email to our group since we all worked in the same area around that breakroom. I also said a prayer because I felt there was little chance of getting this back to whomever lost it. Of course I got several snide responses but no one tried to trick me about owning it. Then I got a mail from a co-worker saying he had lost it (and I believed him). He told me what he planned to use it for, how he had just pulled it out of an ATM, and that it dropped out of his wallet when he went for a soda.
I gave him the $20 and he gave me his gratitude. I felt really good about finding and returning it and he was really thankful that I didn't just keep it. I thanked God that He had let this happen and that I could be a part of it.
Not too long ago I saw a story on the news about how a homeless man found a bag of money and returned it. Needless, to say, this man needed that money in the worst way. What a temptation that must have been. He did get a reward and they ran his story and interview on the news. He didn't expect any reward. I was absolutely astonished. It's so amazing how God works through people.
My own daughter returned an Ipod that she found on the ground during a 5K she was volunteering for her high school. She could have just kept it as she was all by herself and no one would know, but she chose to do the right thing and I'm so proud of her. Her teacher was very grateful for the owner had already asked for it-she had lost it!
I'm sure our Heavenly Father smiled at that act of integrity.
My wife found over 500.00 cash in an envelope in a parking lot. She took the money to the police station and turned it in. We figured someone had cashed their paycheck and lost it.
I was proud of my wife who has a good moral compass. Honor and integrity are pricless. It is a blessing to be married to her.
A few years ago, I had to ride the city bus for a day b/c my car was in the shop. In my wallet was over $600 in bills as I had just cashed my paycheck and during the first leg of the ride, I apparently left my wallet sitting on one of the seats as I got off. I remember the bus being full for that time of day and after realizing what I had done, I immediately called the bus company's lost and found to report my missing wallet. I was SURE I would never ever see my wallet or that money again (which was my rent money for that month) so imagine my surprise when the bus company operator told me that the bus driver had my wallet and it would be available for pick up at the end of that day.
After borrowing money from a neighbor for another bus ride downtown to retrieve my wallet, I got to the lost and found office and was handed my wallet. Of course the first thing I did was check the contents and EVERY CENT and was still there and NOTHING had been removed!!!!! Now, the story gets better (well, kind of).
I guess I must have been REALLY distracted that day because upon return to my house after a long day of bus riding, I discovered I had AGAIN left my wallet on the bus (oh, yes I did!) I was panic-stricken because I was sure that good luck would *NOT* be on my side twice in one day so I immediately went back to the bus stop to wait for the bus to return.
Eventually the same bus I was previously on showed up and I explained to the driver what had happened as I broke into tears because I was so angry at myself and exhausted. Low and behold the driver had my wallet although I don't know if he had found it or if it had been turned in to him. Regardless, I had my wallet back AND once again NOTHING WAS MISSING including the $600+. I was sooo shocked beyond words that I just didn't know what to say but I thanked the driver over and over and went home.
I wanted to give a monetary gift to both of the bus drivers but was told by the bus company's HR dept. that they were unable to accept gratuities, which was very unfortunate. I didn't want to put them in a position of going against policy if I offered them money anyway but I wanted them to know I had TRIED to give them a gift to show my appreciation.
I am soooo thankful for this experience and remember it often as I "pay it forward" to others :-)
My husband went to Home Depot (2 years ago) to pick up a new outdoor table and chair set.
One of the workers helped him put the boxes on his truck. He thought there seemed to be a lot
of boxes but felt the worker knew what he was doing.
When he got home and started to unpack the boxes, he realized the worker put two (2) sets on
the truck.
My husband put the extra set back on his truck and returned it to the store saving the worker from
having to pay for the mistake.
The worker said," you're one in a million", which was more valuable than having an extra set.
When my son was in middle school, about 11 years old, his class took a test, and the teacher had them pass the test to the person behind them to grade. The boy behind my son marked a question or two correct on his paper that was incorrect. My son came home and told me about it, and I asked him what he thought he should do. He said, "tell the teacher about it". And that's what he did the next morning. He wasn't being a tattle tale; he was correcting the wrong about his grade. That may be a little thing to some, but it was a big thing to this mom and to the integrity of my young son.
When my son was 16 and just had received his license, he was so excited to get gas in our car that he left our major credit card on top of the pump.
When we realized what had happened we went to the gas station (a day later) and asked if anyone had turned in the card. The woman behind the counter asked our name and the type of card it was and checked the safe. Thankfully an honest person had turned it in and we got our card back. This taught our son a lesson in two different ways. To this day at 22 years old, he remembers to do the right thing.
Years ago we went on a family vacation. The first place we went was a theme park. My
husband and children got on a ride and then we went on walking to another area. All of a sudden my husband realized that his wallet was missing. We panicked because it had our credit cards and travelers checks we were using for the rest of the trip. We began to retrace our steps and as we did two men came up to him and asked if he lost his wallet.
They found the wallet and were standing around to see if someone would come back looking for it. They identified him from his picture on his driver's license. We were so relieved and thankful that these men were honest
In December 1999 my grandson drove to the grocery with me. Returning to the car, I took our purchases out of the cart, placing them in the trunk. We drove across the street to the Walgreens, when I discovered that my wallet was no where in sight. Making a dash back to the grocery, I talked with the office attendant and learned it had not been turned in. She took my name and phone.
As we drove home we prayed and asked God to bless the person who finds it. A few minutes later at the house, the phone rang. My wallet had been turned into the office. So we quickly returned, and learned that someone had found it in the top section of the grocery cart and brought it in to the office. Everything was in tact...all money and credit cards still exactly as they had been. So back in the car, we thanked God and prayed best blessings on that person! My grandson talked about "What a good person that was" and I talked about "We should never keep anything that is not ours!"
I have always considered myself to have integrity. But a few years ago, I was shopping, I made a purchase at a store that was a good 45min away that I did not frequent often. Opon my arrival home I realized the checkout person had not charged me for one of my items. I had decided in my head that it was her mistake and it was to far to go back. The very next day I realized my wallet was missing. I called every store I went to the day before and no one had seen it. Feeling convicted I decided it was best to return to the store and pay for the item I had not originally paid for and make things right.
To my amazement 3 MONTHS LATER a store called to say they had found my wallet, it was turned in and placed in the store safe. Because it was black it was overlooked when it fell in the back of the safe. Not a single item was missing.
From then on I have MADE SURE to do the right thing no matter how inconvenient it may be. The Lord reminded me that we are all sinners but I am thankful that he forgives!
I had almost the same "left on the bus" experience as I read above. Years ago, while in college, I left my airline ticket (home for Christmas) in L.A city bus (!). I had to fly out the next day, I recall, and was heartbroken that it was "surely gone". But a friend drove me to the bus "lost and found" and, you guessed it, it was there. This wasn't an e-ticket, and I wasn't going to be able to afford a replacement--no way. So, my Christmas was special, and I never got to thank the "angel" who "did the right thing" (as I've done myself more than once--thank God).
It's my unstudied opinion that there are many more of "us" (who care about what's right, even when it hurts) then we think. Sure, it's a darkening world, but I think sometimes we're sure the whole world is dark, when that's mostly just the image we get (too much media can be, well, too much). I'm reminded of the prophet Elijah, who fled from Jezebel and was sure was the only righteous man left in Israel--only to find out that God wasn't dead, and that there were 7,000 who hadn't bowed to Baal. So, don't believe the bad press, but do press on to do what's right regardless.
And keep up the encouragement, Mr. Daly!
I too once left $100. in the ATM. I noticed when I got home and drove back to the bank fully knowing that it wouldn't be there because the bank was closed and just the ATM was open and likely a dozen or more people would have gone through.
It wasn't there so the next day I called the bank and sure enough an older lady had turned it in when the bank opened. After proving it was mine (how much was it, what time did it happen, etc.) the bank gave it to me. Normally the bank would not have told anyone the lady's name but I knew the manager very well and he knows I'm a Christian and that I would like to thank this lady. He told me she was a widow and a loyal customer to the bank. I paid her a visit with a box of chocolates and $20. She took the chocolate but not the money. I have a ball cap with these words on it: "Men of Integrity" and am always aware that others are watching and more important, the Lord.
During my first teaching job right out of college, I had a co-teacher who taught Bible class to my 6th graders. He misgraded a paper and gave a higher score than was earned to one of my students. The boy realized it and told the teacher. The teacher replied, "We have been learning how Heaven matters so much more than earth. Would you like to keep those five points on that paper as a reward on earth or would you like to get the grade you really earned and have those points for honesty be stored up in heaven?"
You can guess what that student chose- Heaven! I haven't forgotten that lesson, and I,too, have had the opportunity to help several of my students over the years store up a treasure in heaven when I have mismarked a paper.
Turns out that Robert Adams lied about where he found the money and now he's being vilified, and being fined $500 for lying in a police report which caused the police a lot of extra work to figure out what happened.
However, I think that, while it was wrong for him to mislead the police and hence cause them so much extra work, it was important and commendable that he did not keep the money but did return it.
This is not meant to belittle all of these stories, but my husband would drive across town to return just a few cents to a store clerk who had given him too much (he did this kind of thing regularly) but had a long term affair with a married woman in our church. I believe a person has to have integrity in all areas of his/her life to be called 'a person with integrity'.
Twenty years ago, I was coming into work in the morning. One of my coworkers, while searching for something in her purse, dropped a wad of money. I picked it up, called to her and gave it back. It turned out to be her rent money. She was grateful.
Another time, while visiting Sweden, I was in a crowded American Express Office to buy travellers checks. A man who had just puchased thousands in travellers checks dropped them in a folded clump on the floor. I called to the man and gave him his money. He was very relieved.
I never gave it a second thought in either situation. Integrity really matters!
Recently my husband left his Iphone 4 in a grocery store cart. We realized he did this after about 20-30 minutes and I told him on the way back to the store that there's no way someone turned it in and that he better hope it was left in the cart.
To my surprise, someone had found it in the cart and turned it in to customer service. I was really surprised since someone could use it or sell it, but was very thankful for someone's honesty.
It is said that "many drops make a pond" and these inspiring posts bear witness that the pond of integrity is wide and deep. All praise to God!
While on a trip to Walt Disney World few years ago we were walking around Epcot. I looked down and saw a wad of cash on the ground and stopped to pick it up. My husband and I looked around for a Disney cast member and gave her the money and explained what we had found and where. Hopefully, the money was returned to the person that lost it. Our two children didn't understand why we gave the money to the cast member instead of keeping it, but that also gaves us a great opportunity to teach a valuable lesson about integrity and just doing the right thing.
When my son was 12, his basketball was stolen at a state baskeball tournament. As we were preparing to leave the last day of the tournament, he found another basketball in the lobby and wanted to take it to replace his. I explained to him that the ball didn't belong to him and that we should turn it in to Lost and Found. Experiencing his own loss, he couldn't understand why he couldn't take this other ball. We talked about how he felt about losing his own ball (having it stolen) and how some other boy might feel if he came back looking for the ball we had found. We turned the ball in to Lost and Found.
A colleague of mine, Pete, saw a plain white envelope on a busy downtown street in Washington, D.C., during lunch time. He picked it and discovered it was full of money--$1200 cash--and no ID. Knowing that someone would miss that amount of cash, he continued walking down the street looking to see if he could identify an anxious face. Before long, an older woman was retracing her steps toward him, looking on the ground as if she had lost something. Suspecting she was the owner of the money, he asked her, "Did you lose something?" Well, she was looking for the dropped envelope; confident that he had found the true owner he handed it to her, with the money intact.
When he recounted the story, I told him later that God had made sure he found it because He knew the money would be safe with Pete.
Years ago I was working for the goverment and have since retired.I went to the ouside dumpster to depoist trash when I noticed a small bank envelope.I opened it and it had a bunch of old coins as well as cash $13,000.00 worth later I found out.I was in a hurry so didn't think much about it until the following day.Went to the offices and found the owner who identified it he accidently left it there next to the dumbster while warming up his motorcycle.The owner of the money turned out to be a christian and reported me to my boss. A letter of integrity was put in my file and he personally took me to a restaurant of my choosing.He said he wanted to reward me for my honesty.A mans integrity is determined by what he does when nobody sees him!
A year or so ago, my husband left for work early one morning not realizing his truck tailgate hadn't latched properly the night before. (He'd been having trouble with it.) His tool box containing all of his tools for his commercial roofing work (some recently purchased) slid out the back and dropped on the road as he went up a steep hill near our home. He called me and I went out walking along the road looking, but couldn't find it. We were both just sick about the loss, because some of the tools were quite expensive. Finally that night I suggested he call the police station and see if by chance it would have gotten turned in. The policeman asked him to give some identifying factors since it was locked and they couldn't see what was in it to prove it. He then said it was there! A vehicle following my husband that morning had seen it fall, stopped and picked it up and turned it in to the police station because they couldn't catch up to him fast enough to return it. It was a tremendous answer to our prayers all that day to have gotten it back again, and we were forever grateful to the honest person(s) who turned it in for us!!!
My daughter and I were purchasing tickets to attend a craft show. Tickets were $5.00 more for those 13 or older. My daughter had turned 13 a week earlier. The attendant said to just pretend she was 12 and pay the lesser price. I declined. He was surprised and asked why? I told him my integrity was worth more than $5.00. I am thankful that Christ has paid for my sin and taught me in the ways I should go. His price for my integrity was His life. How much is yours worth?
Many years ago when our three kids were younger and all living at home our family went on a downhill skiing daytrip. The weather was unseasonably warm and halfway to our destination my husband pulled the car to the side of the road to take the insulated "winter front" off of our vehicle. Climbing back into the car he had with him an envelope filled with cash and a book of ticket stubs. We were literally in the middle of nowhere (rural Saskatchewan) and this envelope was right at his feet as he stood outside in front of our car. The only clue as to where the money belonged was on one of the unsold tickets that identified an event happening that very day. As we continued on to our destination wondering where and to whom we could turn over this money, within about 20 minutes we entered the very town where the event was happening. Right on the side of the road was a large sign indicating that registrations for the event was at the hotel on the right hand side of the road. Disbelief was evident on the face of the hotel attendant when my husband explained the situation. It had never even occured to us to keep the money. Even now years later our family recounts this event with vivid clarity. Our children will always believe what we do more often than they believe what we say.
Last year, I sent my daughter a care package at college. When the package arrived, she had received the wrong package and it contained $800 cash and a lottery ticket. She returned it to the delivery company and through some address information on the package, we were able to identify the correct recipient. I found out that the $800 was being sent from a woman to her elderly mother to help her pay her bills. I was so proud of my daughter that she was not tempted to keep the money.
Hello! I'm delighted to tell you about my son Jeff. A few years ago, he was in Jr. High and was out riding his bike. He noticed some cash laying in a gutter and scooped it up and brought it home to show me! We had a good talk about it and of course he was excited, but even moreso he worried about who might have lost it! So he called the police and told them the details and they suggested he leave it with them for 30 days, and if no called to claim it, they would contact him and it would be his.
Jeff patiently waited, didn't really discuss it figuring he'd never see it again. A little more than a month went by and he "received a call from the police . . . no one claimed it and $200 in cash was his.
I was so very proud of him and the testimony he has because of this one decision (in a million) that makes a difference in our walk with the Lord! Today, as an adult, he is still a man of great conviction and godly integrity.
It may sound as if I’m bragging, but I’m so proud of my wife & wanted to share this act of integrity. A few days ago, she stopped at a gas station in our neighborhood that has full serve gas. She was going to only get $20 in gas since she only had $23 cash. The employee pumping the gas was distracted & was not able to stop the pump until it reached $29 & change. As I mentioned, my wife only had $23, so he accepted that cash, expecting to pay the rest from his pocket. He seemed to be having a rough day. Although it was an inconvenience, my wife went to the credit union & withdrew some cash, then went to McDonald’s & bought a chocolate shake & returned the exact change plus the chocolate shake. He was amazed by her kindness, & commented that it was his mistake & she wasn’t expected to make up the difference. My wife replied by saying that God doesn’t ask for him to be perfect and neither can she. I just think of how many times we have the opportunity to bless someone, & don’t take the time or effort to do so. We all need to be reminded of how we show Christ in our everyday lives.
My husband went to the bank and withdrew most of the money we had for a trip we had to take. When he got home, he realized he had lost the money. I called the bank and the man sounded very strange as he asked questions. He told me a lady had turned the money in. When I called to thank her, she said when she saw the wad of $100 bills and did not even want to be tempted (being a Christian) so she just turned it in without counting.
Being the vile sinners we are, this is just another example to illustrate Who is really in charge. He works all things for the good of those who love Him. He does it with Mercy, Compassion & Love steeped in Justice, Fairness & Righteousness.
Have you ever had it set in your mind to accomplish something that you know wasn't exactly right & along the way, wind up glorifying God by doing something totally off of your potentially damaging intention? Friends, isn't this what David referred to as His "rod & staff" in The 23rd Psalm? When you belong to The Good Shepherd, you belong are kept by The Good Shepherd, whether or not you, I or anyone else likes it or not. The Master's voice is POWERFUL. It created the whole universe. Certainly, it can take care of us "jars of clay".
I don't know the situation for Mr. Adams. I refuse to judge anything about him/his circumstances. I do Praise my God for using Mr. Adams as a tool to glorify our LORD. I pray for the best for Mr. Adams, because honesty certainly isn't vogue these days. Yet, I'm of the mind that The Good LORD allowed Mr. Adams to be motivated to be where he was when he was in order that things turned out the way they happened. Without the desire of being around a young lady, would Mr. Adams have taken the trip? Hmmmm.
I know that in my own life it has often been what I perceived to be a potentially perceived unrighteous motivation that led me to an action of such significance as leading a lost soul in prayer to receive Christ as her LORD & Savior, and it wasn't until afterwards that I was even partially aware of the evil in my heart.
Friends, it's scary to begin to learn the wickedness within us. That's why people don't want to face it.
Look at Judas Iscariot...what it did for him. Thus, our only hope is to focus..FOCUS, on Christ. His light will break through our clay pots (Oh, how it hurts to be broken.) & give light to a fallen world & prevent us creatures made in the image of The Creator from facing eternal misery in a place prepared for the fallen angels...a place where those made in the image of The One Who condemned the fallen angels...aren't welcomed & are hated by the fallen angels...with a passion beyond our imagination.
Before we, like the Pharisees of JESUS' time, throw stones at Mr. Adams, let us examine our own hearts. Would we have even gotten off the couch to go? Would we have been too focused to take responsibility for returning the cash? Would we have been better persuaded to use the $$ for something else, good, bad or other?
Apparently, Mr. Adams was on a Divine Appointment (Nothing is random in a digital universe; ours is a digital universe. Ask a physics expert.). Maybe Mr. Adams was the only vessel fit enough for the job, one our Good LORD knew He could count on to do "the right thing" in that situation. What would that say about the other people in that area? I don't know for sure, but it is high time we all did some deeper self-examination & look to our Savior that suffered & died for our wickedness.
In December two years ago, I was shopping for groceries at Wal-Mart. I had my Christmas gift cash in my purse. I was in a hurry to get home before my children arrived home from school and accidentally left my purse in my shopping cart after returning it to the shopping cart stall. All the money I had for Christmas gifts was in my purse.
Someone turned my purse into the store and a store employee called me. The cash was sitting near the top of my purse and would have been so easy to pocket when looking to find my i.d. to contact me. I was so thankful for the integrity of those who had their hand in returning my purse to me.
Several years ago my wife and I were preparing for a trip to Eastern Europe. I thought it would be a good idea to make copies of our credit cards and our debit card in case either were lost or stolen on the trip. I used a copy machine at a local grocery store one morning but it was not until that evening I discovered I did not have my credit card when I went to pay a restaurant bill. We hurried back to the grocery store where I learned that some "good Samaritan" had found the cards and turned them in to the customer service desk.
Thank God for good, honest people.
I had a $100 in my pocket as a college student to buy a textbook after class. I ran out of time before church, and it fell ouf of my pocket while I was co-teaching children's choir. One of the little boys in the choir came across it after choir, but after I'de already gone home. He gave to one of the staff at church, and people asked around until they figured out who's it was. He was only about 10 years old at the time, and even being a church kid I thought it showed a lot of integrity and character. It would have been so easy for him to just pocket that money and pretend it never happened.
Wow!! What wonderful stories of integrity!! I am thankful for the chance to applaud those who have and will stand-up for what is right. That being said I would like to share our story of integrity. Our daughter Brianna has participated in our state pageant for the last 2 years. She created the platform "A face in the mirror love what you see" Building self-esteem in young women.
1 Peter 3:3-4 speaks about inward beauty not outward,loving who you are in Christ. For the past few months she has been preparing for our state pageant. She was ready to "wear the crown" Her dream has been to become "Miss America" and continue her platform in schools etc. But first she had to win at the state level. After 3 evenings of competition she was going great! A strong answer to her "On stage question" gave her continued confidence. Now interview, she is very comfortable with this as she has received many compliments on her speaking abilities from judges in the past. Also first place interview award in non-finalist last year at state. Then the moment of truth, after introducing herself the questions began.Still at peace with herself she continued to answer the questions. To her surprise the next question was: Brianna, How do you feel about the "Defense of Marriage Act" and "Gay Rights"? After taking a deep breath and saying a prayer she answered, " I do not approve of this,"I believe that marriage is between and man and a woman. With that the questions continued in this manner. Realizing that this was not the answers some of the judges were looking for, she completed her interview.Gave her closing statements, and left the room, knowing full well that she had given up her chance for this earthly crown. She told us later that walking away she knew we would be VERY proud of her and she was proud of herself!That is so true, my husband and I along with our friends and family are very proud of her stand for integrity. We believe that God will continue to use her as a mouth piece for her generation. Sincerely, Dale and Linda Tracy
My daughter called me frantic because she had lost her wristlet at school, it had her DL, ID, debit card and some cash. She sttends a big 10 university, and left it in a bar. I told her to pray about it, and I did as well. The next day, after she had gone and gotten a new id for $25.00, someone e-mailed her and said that is was turned in at the union. Everything was there, she was so thankful. I told her that was great, and her discipline for being someplace she shouldnt have been was having to pay for a new id, when she didn't have to. Some nice guy was honest and my daughter learned a lesson at the same time!
While shopping at Costco, I picked up a couple of cute t-shirts for gifts for my (2) nieces. In the process of deciding which ones to choose, I had thrown the possible choices over my arm to hold for a final decision. I inadvertently placed (3) shirts in my basket. After going through the check out and then reviewing my receipt I discovered I had been charged for (3) t-shirts. I told customer service that I had purchased only (2) and she refunded the amount for the extra shirt. I asked her if she needed to look in the bag to be sure I was right and she said, "No." When I got home and unloaded my bags, I was so surprised to see that there were, indeed, (3) shirts. The next time I went to Costco (a few days later), I explained what had transpired and returned the extra shirt. The clerk at customer service was dumbfounded that I would make the effort. I told her that my conscience would not allow me give the shirt as a gift to someone if I had not paid for it.
During a time that our family was growing and money was very tight, my husband was offered 100,000.00 to open a door that he had the power to do for a business transaction. He didn't do it. Didn't even think about it. Wow! I respect him for that! We could have paid for our home! When pressure comes financially, knowing we're paying for it honestly though is so sweet.
For me, I always get the small stuff and it's usually when I'm tired and with all my kids in tow, like when buying school supplies I discovered an eraser we'd not paid for and with a bunch of kids, I returned the eraser. It's just not worth it. Compromise can start small.
It was great that Mr. Adams reported the $l7,000 so it was returned to its rightful owners.
It is very sad that he felt the need to lie about where he was when he found it.
Integrity means telling the truth at all times.
Very perceptive and insightful! The Holy Spirit sets up countless divine appointments...we need to remember to use our spiritual eyes to perceive whats really going on.
Thanks!